Clueless

I am starting to think that some Chinese guys are totally clueless! There have been a couple of incidents where I've all but spelt it out to them that I'm interested to a look of blank faces!

Let me share this experience with you. So at my gym there was a hot young guy who was a personal trainer. He's about 25 and soon to graduate from university. Actually he told me he's 25, but he's probably 22 or 23 in reality! A few months ago he sent me a birthday text message which I thought was sweet. He had gotten my number from the computer at the gym (more than likely against the rules but he's cute so I was like, whatever).

I then invited him to my birthday party but at the last minute he couldn't come. The following week we were exchanging messages when I thought I need to take control and I basically manipulated him into taking me out for dinner. He was going out with some friends from school and so it wasn't a date or anything. However, that day something came up at work and he had to stay back, so it never happened.

A few weeks later we exchanged QQ numbers (QQ is China's equivalent of MSN). We chatted online one night and he told me he wanted a foreign girlfriend. I wasn't interested enough to be his girlfriend, because I knew that really meant: we should date to get married. However, I was interested enough to flirt, hang out and hopefully get a kiss or something!! I was very adamant his bums and abs were mine!! He turned out to be a "traditional guy" and made up lame excuses why we could never hang out, outside the gym - they will fire him if he fraternises with members.

I decided he wasn't worth my "hunting" time and I'd just admire him from afar if he happened to be working while I was at the gym. Recently he quit the gym to focus on his last assessment before graduating in June. Our conversation went something like this:

Him: "I finish work tomorrow."
Me: "Oh so I won't get to see you anymore!" (put on a pout..It seemed to work for Chinese girls, I thought I'd throw one in for shits and giggles...)
Him: "Yes but I do dragon boat training on the river."
Me: "Right. So I can go down to the river in 2 months time and see you from afar?"
Him: "Yes. There will be two boats."
Me: "Wow. I might even see you from my classroom window!" Yes, I can be a sarcastic bitch when I want.
Him: "Yes."
Me: "Ok then I better get back to working out." Muttered under my breath: Don't offer to hang out now you don't work at the gym, loser! Teasing me all these months with your tight shirts, biceps and buns! Argh!!!!!!!!!

I mean how clueless can one guy be?!?! Ok, now I've blogged about it, I can clearly see that the guy's not interested...But I am sure even if he was he would never pick up on my "cues".

我开始思考：中国男人可能根本没有任何头绪！ 我已经经历很多次类似的事件了

我给你们讲一个我的经历，在我的健身馆有一个很吸引人的年轻男人（个人教练），他大概25岁，很快就要大学毕业了。虽然他告诉我他25岁，但是他实际上看起来可能是22或23岁！

几个月前我生日时他给我发了个很浪漫的短信。我邀请他参加我的生日聚会，但最后他没来。接下来的几周我们用短信联系，我想一步步的进行到让他带我出去玩。后来我们一起出去了，但是他带了一些他的同学，所以不能算是约会。

又过了几周后我们交换了QQ号（在中国等与MSN），我们在线交谈，他说他想找一个外国女朋友。我并不想成为他的女朋友，因为我知道在中国男人找女朋友是以结婚为目的的，但是我想与他一起出去玩/谈情说爱/接吻等等，我很喜欢他的腹肌与结实的臀部。结果最后他变成了“传统型男人”，找了些很烂的借口拒绝了我。

后来他辞掉了体育馆的工作，专注他的毕业论文，我们又有了一次谈话：

他：我明天辞掉工作
我：噢，所以我不能再见到你了！（放上一个噘嘴的表情，好像这招对中国女孩来说很好用）
他：是的，但是我会去做划龙舟训练
我：所以我能去河边见你？
他：是的，这有两个船
我：喔，我几乎能在教室的窗边看到你了
他：是的
我：好吧，那我就要走了。（忍住没说的话：浪费了我几个月的时间，你这个不解风情的男人）


我的意思是这个男人为什么会没有任何头绪？

原帖由 菜比 于 2011-12-4 14:56 发表
楼主可以翻译一下吗。

原帖由 tonyget 于 2011-12-4 15:44 发表



所以满街是白皮男/黄皮女的组合，很少看见黄皮男/白皮女的组合，这是很不健康的现象

原帖由 tonyget 于 2011-12-4 16:05 发表



是吗

据我所知，很多男人喜欢找“母亲型”的女人

原帖由 郝伯道 于 2011-12-4 19:29 发表
未必是风情的事
也许这男的对那洋妞不感兴趣

原帖由 鸡肋 于 2011-12-4 16:45 发表
你确定女主长相对得起观众?

原帖由 饭富昌景 于 2011-12-4 16:11 发表

在美国这边见过N多长得清纯又会装嗲装傻的女生， 天天一群亚洲男生围着她们转。找母亲型的那种都是吃过不少苦， 还没达到目标又寂寞的人， 一般都比较老成。